Narcissists and Envy

Envy is usually described as a feeling of discontent, which arises as a result of wanting or desiring something that belongs to someone else. Envy can be a fleeting emotion that arises and quickly dissipates. But Envy or being envious can also become a state of being. Where it becomes a natural disposition or characterContinue reading “Narcissists and Envy”

Surviving the Discard

Today’s post is written by Jenny Tamasi, who is a registered psychologist and author of, The Psychologist & Her Narcissists: A Guide To Surviving Toxic Relationships. The discard phase is very challenging for survivors. Due to cognitive dissonance created by the love bombing and the good days contrasted with the evil hurtful side of yourContinue reading “Surviving the Discard”

How Narcissists View Relationships

Having relationships are a vital part of the human experience. Relationships can be diverse and complicated, but one thing that is certain is that relationships with Narcissists are toxic and dangerous. Narcissists love having relationships because they need people. They need people to shower them with love and affection. But, they also need people toContinue reading “How Narcissists View Relationships”

The Narcissistic Psychopath

Narcissists and Psychopaths have a lot in common and that is why I say; “All Psychopaths are Narcissists but not all Narcissists are Psychopaths.” What about Sociopaths? Sociopaths are the result of early childhood abuse. Their anti-social behaviours are prevalent throughout their life and is clear for all to see. Sociopaths experience some guilt andContinue reading “The Narcissistic Psychopath”

Breaking The Narcissist’s Trauma Bond

Too many people are struggling with moving on from a Narcissist. They are literally bonded and can’t seem to break free. Some think it’s because of the great sex, or that the person was a ‘proper bombshell’. What really keeps them longing for the Narcissist? First of all: What does it mean, to bond withContinue reading “Breaking The Narcissist’s Trauma Bond”

WHEN THE NARCISSIST GOES SILENT

Silence is usually deemed as peaceful, welcoming and pleasant but when a Narcissist goes silent it is none of these things. A narcissist’s silence is never a good thing because the reasons for which they they go silent are usually ill natured. If a Narcissist is quiet around you, these are the possible reasons: TheyContinue reading “WHEN THE NARCISSIST GOES SILENT”

IS EVERYONE NARCISSISTIC

DOES EVERYONE HAVE SOME NARCISSISM? There has been a lot of misinformation, going around to counteract the spreading awareness of Narcissism, that is on the rise in our society. I keep hearing the following statements: ‘Everyone have some narcissism’ or their is ‘healthy narcissism’. Let’s first look at a few definitions of narcissism: 1 –Continue reading “IS EVERYONE NARCISSISTIC”

What Happens When You Abandon The Narcissist

In today’s post I will be a bit of a devil’s advocate but please be sure to read until the end. I am not referring to narcissists in general places like the workplace, but rather narcissists who are closer to you, like a partner or family member. Kicking a narcissist to the curb can beContinue reading “What Happens When You Abandon The Narcissist”

The Narcissistic Injury

A quick look at the Spiritual Side of what really happens to the narcissist when they incur a Narcissistic Injury A Narcissistic Injury is basically when the narcissist has taken offence. Someone or something has made the narcissist really angry. The ego of the narcissist has been badly bruised or threatened somehow. The Narcissistic InjuryContinue reading “The Narcissistic Injury”