The Benefits of Being a Narcissist

Are there benefits to being a narcissist? What good does it serve the narcissist to be the way they are?

I have talked a lot about the troubles or woes that a narcissist endures but there is something that keeps the narcissist trapped and in denial to what is really happening in them and to them.

Have you heard of people selling their souls or making deals with the devil? Well, with the narcissist it is very similar to that.

Many narcissists are very successful, they tend to be the ones who are promoted for positions and power. They are the politicians, motivational and public speakers, pastors, C.E.Os, doctors, lawyers, managers, teachers, trainers. But they can also be successful in blue collar jobs as well but the point is, that the narcissist tends to live a life that is worth envying (at least from the outside).

This happens because narcissists are a host to a very dark entity, and for being a host the narcissist is given, what we call, the Gift of Gab, which is: the ability to speak easily and confidently in a way that makes people want to listen to you and believe you.

With this gift and their unhealthy desire to compete and beat everyone around them, the narcissist is able to charm and persuade their way through life getting what they want. This ability makes up for the lack of empathy as the narcissist is able to convince and influence with only their words. Every interview and conversation is a breeze and the narcissist realises very early on this ‘power’ that they now have which draws people and success into their lives.

Many narcissists know that they have this gift and they use it to benefit themselves while destroying the lives of people around them. Narcissists love to gossip, lie and gaslight. They sow seeds of discord to cause arguements and division. They use their tongue to wreak havoc in people’s lives through smear campaigns. They persuade their exes to take them back despite any previous hurt they had caused. They seduce and flirt with whoever they fancy. They break people with their words. Their Gift of Gab is used only to benefit them.

Their gift, to speak the right words, at the right time has something else more sinister at work. When a narcissist is conversing with the intent to persuade or achieve something, it’s almost like they are putting the recipient under a spell. Words are very powerful in their own right but the narcissist has an extra demonic force at work that leaves the hearer almost captivated or entranced. As a result they are open to believing what the narcisisst is saying or open to grant the request of the narcissist.

This is a topic I have covered in a YouTube Video just released today. It is called The Dangers of Conversing With A Narcissist.

Narcissists are given a gift in exchange for their co-operation with the dark side and that is the Gift of Gab. But because of the success a narcissist sees in their life, they tend to attribute it to God or a higher power, if they are religious (and many tend to be). And therefore think that God must be pleased with them because of all the blessings that they are receiving or for how favoured they are. This is the ultimate deception with the narcissist. The source of their success comes from a much darker place but this denial keeps them trapped and their success makes them unwilling to change anything about their lives.

Many who have been hurt by a narcissist have questioned; When is the narcissist going to be punished? When will they get their Karma? They ask this, because as far as they are concerned, the narcissist carries on to be successful and happy. What they don’t understand is, that appearance of success and happiness is and will always be the narcissist’s downfall because their soul is lost. In exchange for worldly success they are being eaten alive and they don’t even know it. They are blinded! But, when the scales are removed from their eyes and all the people who at one time genuinely cared for them can no longer be found. Then, the darkness will reveal itself and claim what is rightfully theirs.

Narcissists are deluded into thinking that their actions will go unpunished! They are foolish to think that they can destroy so many lives and not suffer any loss.

So, although the narcissist has a temporal reward and seem to be living it up and living it well; is it worth it to gain the whole world and lose your soul? I think not!

The moral of this post is not to envy or be jealous of people who are successful because you do not know the price that they have paid to get what they have. Also, don’t believe that because someone appears to have a good life mean they actually do.

NOT EVERYTHING THAT GLITTERS IS GOLD.

EMPATHS BEWARE: The Narcissist is the Predator and You are the Prey!

Let me make it clear; when I say ‘Empath’, I’m simply referring to anyone who has empathy. I know there is a whole Empath movement out there where there are people who are hypersensitive to whatever is around them and can literally feel other peoples´ emotions. I also know that there are different levels of Empaths but, for the purpose of this article, I am simply referring to anyone who has empathy.

Empathy is a big deal because we know that there are people out there who do not have any empathy whatsoever and they are a danger to society. Narcissists (including others on the Cluster B personality disorder scale), psychopaths and sociopaths are all guilty of lacking empathy. Although these people are split up into different categories, I believe their foundation is in narcissism and they are all narcissistic.

Narcissists target empaths! Our empathy is what makes us a magnet for narcissists. The narcissist knows they cannot feel what we feel or understand the different levels of compassion that we show to one another. They can mimic it for their own benefit but it is never genuine. They use their fake empathy to manipulate and control others. Narcissists see empathy as a weakness and therefore they perceive empaths as easy targets.

The lack of empathy that narcissists have is a big contributor to who they are (evil, selfish, deluded, pathological liars etc). When someone has been taken over by a dark entity, their ability to empathize diminishes as the evil force that they are now hosting cannot operate effectively if empathy is present. I would compare it to a light switch being turned off; you turn off the light and you´re left in darkness unable to see or discern what is wrong or right. Empathy is that light switch that goes off when a darker force has taken control.

The narcissist now earnestly seeks to connect with those who have empathy, not only to control and manipulate them but also in an attempt to feel and experience love but it never happens, as no matter how much love and compassion you show to a narcissist, it is never enough. Their ego eats it all up but the true essence of the person being possessed by the dark entity never gets any of that as their true self is hidden away.

The narcissist despises our empathy on one hand but on the other hand they crave it. It makes them feel alive, wanted and important. They’ve realised that empathy gives us access to something they don’t have, and it is Hope.

Empathy breeds hope and hope is what a narcissist really needs but because of their lack of empathy, they are instead filled with and driven by fear. Once a narcissist remains a narcissist there is no hope for them and if there is no hope, there is no joy in life.

So, narcissists will continue to hunt for empaths, as they think they are an easy target but also in a desperate attempt to attain something that they can´t ever truly have. Our empathy is our strength. We are stronger than narcissists and it´s because we have Hope!

Hope Central

How To Make A Narcissist Leave You Alone

This question, in my mind, has a very simple answer and if you already know, some of the things a narcissist is afraid of, you may already know the answer.

My job, is to EXPOSE NARCISSISTS and getting exposure is one of the narcissist’s biggest fears. This is why the narcissist has worked hard to maintain a certain image. It is basically to hide the darkness and evil inside their miserable hearts.

The dark entity within the narcissist has also worked pretty hard, to not be detected by even the narcissist (host). So, calling the narcissist out and at the same time making the entity aware that you know it’s there is the best way to get a narcissist to leave you alone.

You can simply tell the narcissist either that they they are evil, demon possessed, that they have a black negative energy atttached to them or that their heart is black. Any of these phrases and more will send off alarm bells in the mind of the narcissist and an immense fear will come over them. This is not just the narcissist’s response alone, but the response of the demonic entity within them.

The last time I did this, it was in a text message. She read it but did not respond. She started a smear campaign against me but she has never made any attempt to contact me since and this was 3 years ago.

The entity realises that you are on to them and that is enough to make them fearful and also make the host afraid of you. If you know that they are there, they will anticipate your next move, will be to try and get rid of them and they don’t want that.

So, the answer is simple, it may take a bit of courage but if you are able to, it is the best way to get a narcissist to leave you alone. Call them out for exactly what they are; demon-filled, evil, toxic bastards. This will evoke a deep sense of shame that they will try to shun away from and deny but they will never be comfortable around you ever again, which means they will actively avoid you. They may smear you, tell people you are crazy, in order to justify avoiding you but they themselves will not be able to look you in the eye ever again.

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What Happens When You Abandon The Narcissist

In today’s post I will be a bit of a devil’s advocate but please be sure to read until the end. I am not referring to narcissists in general places like the workplace, but rather narcissists who are closer to you, like a partner or family member.

Kicking a narcissist to the curb can be an amazing feeling! Escaping their toxic grasp and control can bring unspeakable relief. But, what about the narcissist? How do they deal with being discarded or abandoned? Should we care?

Well, it all depends. It depends on how much you have suffered or lost at the hands of the narcissist. There are different levels of narcissism. It’s a fact that some narcissists cause more damage than others. Although they are inherently evil due to their spiritual possession, some narcissists are more aware or in control than others.

I strongly believe that narcissists get progressively worse based on not just age but their experiences. Narcissists get hurt too and every time they get hurt they strengthen their defence mechanisms. They become colder and darker, the spiritual entity strengthens its hold and the narcissist becomes more dangerous.

When a narcissist is abandoned this reopens a very deep and hurtful wound. Their ego is not just bruised, it has been trampled and the narcissist is left gasping for air. They are first left dumbfounded by it all, somewhat in shock as they didn’t expect it. They explore all the whys, whos and whats. In their deluded minds they don’t understand how you can leave someone so ‘perfect’. How could you think that you could live without them? The narcissist convinces themself that you will be nothing without them. That you have made the biggest mistake of your life. But in all honesty, it has made them feel like scum and they mull over it for some time. All the while the entity is filling their minds with not only thoughts of worthlessness but revenge.

The demonic entity that the narcissist hosts, loves it when the narcissist is hurt because it is allowed to feed and strengthen itself off the pain and brokenness of the narcissist. When a narcissist re-emerges from this terrible down-time (without proper treatment) they are more dangerous than before.

They will employ flying monkeys to find out about you. They will become obsessed with you. The narcissist will want revenge. The narcissist will be smearing your name, pretending to move on and hunting for the next victim all at the same time. The narcissist is on the prowl for a new supply who will probably end up paying for what you did.

I want to bring this out because people are advising to just run or ghost the narcissist but this has a very negative effect on the narcisist and makes them more dangerous for the next innocent victim. I would advise to leave a letter or send a text explaining why you are leaving and making it clear that you know they are a narcissist and they need help. So, yes pack your bags and prepare to go no-contact but at least leave a message or note to explain why.

Yes they will use it against you somehow and it will still hurt them but you’ve given them something to work with. Something to pick apart and project back onto you (even though you won’t be around to hear it) instead of their minds going into a hundred directions trying to figure out what happened. We already know that they overthink obsessively. So just ghosting them can drive them insane. Some narcissists may even consider what you’ve said and attempt to get help. You never know!

I know for some people they would love the narcissist to suffer because of what they’ve put them through and the time they’ve taken from them. But I’m saying “spare a thought for the next person who will cross the narcissist”.

The entity wants the narcissist to get hurt. The entity wants everyone to abandon the narcissist because then it knows that it will be strengthened off the hurt and pain of the narcissist. The entity wants full control of the narcissist and every time a narcissist is abandoned that makes it more powerful.

Self-proclaimed narcissists like Sam Vankin who has surrendered to the darkness are encouraging non-narcissists to abandon the narcissists in their lives. Doesn’t anyone find that strange…? Many low-level narcissists are being abandoned and becoming worse as a result of their partners or family members just discarding them.

I will admit that some narcissists are too far gone but there are many who still have hope and the growing consensus is just to RUN! Abandon them all, discard them all, but by doing that we are only making a bad situation worse.

I am not saying to stick around and try to change them but it won’t hurt to call them out on their Crap and point them in the right direction.

But also, the narcissist doesn’t care what happens to us when they discard us; so why should we care about them and what they do? Narcissists will continue to hurt people in spite of, but as to how far they go can depend on how we treated them.

An important point to note, is that, many people today are not full blown narcissists, instead they just have a few narcissistic traits but still they are labeled narcissists. Keeping this in mind when dealing with the people in your life is very important because you may be making a bad situation worse.

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The Narcissistic Injury

A quick look at the Spiritual Side of what really happens to the narcissist when they incur a Narcissistic Injury

A Narcissistic Injury is basically when the narcissist has taken offence. Someone or something has made the narcissist really angry. The ego of the narcissist has been badly bruised or threatened somehow.

The Narcissistic Injury causes the narcissist to experience a narcissistic rage and with that can come an onslaught of negative emotions, such as anger, envy, jealousy, disgust etc. But, these negative emotions, although they are not good emotions that we should wallow in for too long; the narcissist (rather the entity within the narcissist) relishes and flourishes in this pool of negativity. So, these dark emotions are actually pleasing to the narcissist.

When a narcissist is enraged or overcome with envy for example they get a boost in energy that makes them feel somewhat invincible. What is actually happening is that they have sufficiently fed the beast within and it’s ready to fight. That energy boost is the entity rising to the occassion to supply the narcissist with the vigor and determination to destroy the person who inflicted the narcissistic wound.

It’s no longer just the narcissist and their petty, insecure, emotionally immature mannerisms that you are dealing with, oh no, the narcissist has taken a back seat. You are dealing with a demon, because by the narcissist fueling these negative emotions the entity within the narcissist has gotten stronger and the stronger it becomes the more control it has over the narcissist.

The glitter of charm is gone from their eyes and all you will see are dark, bottomless, cold beads looking back at you. A smirk of pure evil lines their face. Some may even change facial features or totally contort. This is a time of manifestation. A revelation of what is truly behind the mask. Many people have experienced the destructive force of the narcissist but not many have seen the mask slip this much. For those unfortunate few, what they have witnessed is the darkest truth; the truth that evil lives and it has a face. What is seen cannot be unseen!

When it gets this bad and the narcissist eventually snaps out of it, they are very likely not to be able to remember a lot of what they did or said and it’s understandable because they were not the ones in control.

But despite this, it is best to show no fear. The narcissist wants you to be afraid because they can feed off that fear. The more you are afraid, the more they can control you and hurt you. These dark parasitic entities need something to work with and being fearful triggers them. This is why it’s important to fill your heart and life with light and good. Dwell on happy thoughts and keep HOPE alive.

A Narcissistic Injury always leads to a narcissistic rage and there are different levels to the narcissistic rage, so although it may not always get this bad the narcissist will have their revenge. They cannot let you go unpunished! The narcissist is inclined to punish anyone who crosses their path. It may take months or even years but the narcissist never forgives or forgets and will wait patiently to destroy you.

This is why NO CONTACT is usually best, because the narcissist will not let you be. They will try every trick in the book to trap you and hurt you. Be wise to their ways and never trust a narcissist.

This video explains what it means when the narcissist acts too nice!

The Jezebel Spirit and Narcissism

There is a lot of talk about the Jezebel Spirit, so today I will explain where the name Jezebel comes from and whether it has any connection to Narcissism.

If you are familiar with my blog, you already know that I believe there is a ‘Spirit of Narcissism’ that is responsible for the rise in Narcissists and Narcissism in our society; but is it the same as the Jezebel Spirit?

When I hear Jezebel Spirit, the first thing that comes to mind is a wicked, seductive woman who manipulates people and situations to get what she wants. Apparently, the Jezebel Spirit is not just reserved for women but men as well and narcissists (narcissistic men and women) in particular are now labeled as Jezebels. But, what is the origin of the name ‘Jezebel’?

Well, Jezebel is the name of 2 women in the bible. The first one was the wife of Ahab, king of Israel, and a very wicked woman. Her story begins in 1 Kings Chapter 16 vs 31 through to 2 Kings Chapter 9 vs 37. This Jezebel was a murderer, a liar and a very controlling woman. She was also the one who influenced her husband to carry out many wicked deeds as it says clearly in 1 Kings Chapter 21 vs 25: ‘And Ahab did wickedly, in that he sold himself to do that which was evil in the sight of the Lord, as his wife Jezebel led him astray.’

In 2 Kings Chapter 9 vs 30, it talks about her hearing of Jehu (a mighty warrior) coming to the city where she was and she painted her face etc. and looked out the window, perhaps to seduce him.

The second Jezebel is mentioned in Revelations Chapter 2 vs 20 – 23. Only 1 verse (v.20) really describes her but it tells us a lot. This is what it says: ‘Notwithstanding I have a few things against thee because thou sufferest that woman Jezebel, which calleth herself a prophetess, to teach and to seduce my servants to commit fornication, and to eat things sacrificed unto idols.’

Both Jezebels influenced others to do wickedness because they both had positions of control and influence. They were both manipulators and idolators. One killed the prophets of God, the other seduced the prophets/men of God.

The qualities of these two women, who were both called Jezebel are what have been used to create and symbolise the Jezebel Spirit. But, there is actually no mention of a Jezebel Spirit in the Christian Bible. So, anyone who is manipulative, sexually immoral, controlling and evil is said to have a Jezebel Spirit.

The characteristics of these women are very similar to that of a narcissist and many links have been made recently to where narcissists are called Jezebels and even Ahabs, after Jezebel’s husband. But in my opinion, Ahab was more of a Co-dependent than a narcissist as it said clearly it was his wife who was pulling the strings. If anyone displeased him, he did not do anything to them but his wife would go behind his back and take them out. (Read 1 Kings Chapter 21 vs 1 -22).

So, as you can see, the characteristics of these two women are what have been combined to create the Jezebel Spirit and the term is now being applied to people who are narcissistic or who suffer from the Narcissistic Personality Disorder. As a result, Narcissist = Jezebel Spirit.

Did the Jezebel in 1 Kings have the Jezebel Spirit? No, Jezebel was probably narcissistic, so it would be more appropriate to say that the Spirit of Narcissism operated within her. But, many Christian pastors and teachers have made the terms synonymous, and Jezebel is now the mother of all narcissists.

Was Jezebel the first recorded narcissist in the bible? No, I think Cain (the first child of Adam and Eve) was very narcissistic as well. He was competitive and proud. He was also envious and jealous of his brother and that drove him to kill his own brother. Then, when confronted, he was defensive and lied about it. So, maybe the Spirit of Cain would be more appropriate.

Do Narcissists have the Jezebel Spirit? If Jezebel didn’t have the Jezebel Spirit it is not the correct name. Naming things for what they are is very important. And that is probably why Narcissism has gone undetected in churches for so long, because there are many more characteristics to Narcissism, that neither Jezebels are documented as having.

The Jezebel Spirit, much like Narcissism, is a Spirit of Destruction. It’s destroying families, churches and everyday relationships. But, I don’t think the name Jezebel Spirit is a full embodiment of what a Narcissist is, although this is what is being pushed at the moment. But, if it allows people to recognise or relate to what a narcissist is then I won’t hold it against them. The most important thing is that people realise that Narcissism is more than a mental illness and that our fight is not just a physical one but a spiritual one.

Narcissists are evil, manipulative and controlling like the Jezebels mentioned in the bible. Whichever way someone decides to pinpoint Narcissism, it’s totally their choice, but let it be known that it is an evil spirit that needs to be EXPOSED!

Why It’s So Hard To Get Over The Narcissist

For some people moving on from the narcissist has proven to be very difficult. Although they may have taken the necessary steps by going no contact, blocking them on Social Media etc., or even moving cities to avoid the narcissist; the narcissist still haunts them. Despite all their efforts, they find that they still think about the narcissist everyday. Some even desire to make contact or for the narcissist to reach out to them some how.

There is a part of them that hates the narcissist while there is another part that would love to have the narcissist back; or they may just feel stuck, unable to do much with their life and lacking in overall confidence and self-love.

Why The Struggle?

There are a few factors that can leave someone still longing for a narcissist. The first one is that it was an unexpected discard.

The narcissist discarded you and you didn’t see it coming. Although there may have been a few arguements, silent treatments, etc; the break-up was not expected. So, you are still entranced by the narcissist and this sudden harsh treatment has left you in shock even traumatised. And even though you may have put the dots together and realised that this ex-partner was a narcissist you simply can’t let go. You have become anxious, paranoid, angry, bitter, you experience feelings of worthlessness, you may even start suffering from depression. Your confidence and self-esteem has taken a beaten. You are broken.

The next factor comes down to how much was invested into the relationship. The more time, money, emotions and commitments that one has had with the narcissist is the second thing that can make it difficult to move on.

In this case you may have even discarded them but you are now obsessed with the narcissist. You replay past events in your mind over and over again. Maybe even wishing to have done certain things differently. You are angry and bitter all the time, even obsessing on how to get back at the narcissist and hurt them as much as they’ve hurt you. Getting your life back on track is more difficult than you anticipated because you are obsessed with the past, you are obsessed with the narcissist.

Some even begin stalking the narcissist on Social Media to see who they are dating, or what they are up to. What people in this situation need to realise is that even though they are not with the narcissist physically, the narcissist is still there!

Why It’s So Hard To Get Over The Narcissist

Being in an intimate relationship with someone is a physical, mental and spirtitual experience. This is why just removing yourself physically from a narcissist is not enough. You need time to detox you mind and your spirit from the narcissist in order to heal and move on. The narcissist is beyond human. They are the host for a demonic, spiritual entity who got access to your spirit while they were with you. A lot of the negative emotions and thoughts that you experience after leaving the narcissist is a sure sign that the narcissist has infected you and that they’ve left a bit of themselves within you.

These parasitic entities feed off of negativity, so if you can eradicate those negative thoughts and emotions that baby parasite that the narcissist left within you will die and you will no longer long for the narcissist or you will no longer feel the need for revenge; as you will realise that their dysfunctional existance is what will destory them in the end.

A major step to eradicating the narcissist from your life for good is to FORGIVE. Forgive yourself first (because some people do blame themselves for what has transpired with the narcissist) and then forgive the narcissist.

Holding unforgiveness will not help you but will actually hinder your recovery from narcissistic abuse and being able to move on from the narcissist.

Forgiveness doesn’t mean taking back the narcissist or even saying anything to them. It’s about releasing them for the hurt they caused by realising that they are just puppets being controlled by a malevolent force.

If you don’t forgive you remain bitter, angry, anxious and paranoid. You will be stuck in a cycle of highs and lows, your views on life and people will slowly change, hate will grow in your heart and you will slowly become more and more like the monster you once despised.

It’s time to get over the Narcissist! It’s time to stop being obsessed with the Narcissist! It’s time to Heal and fill your life with Love and Light.

Why Narcissists Overthink

Overthinking is a problem in our society today, but as I focus on narcissists this is who I’m referring to in this blog.

Narcissists suffer from a lot of things but one thing ALL narcissists suffer from is overthinking. Their minds are constantly going at over a hundred miles an hour. They struggle with being fully present and living in the moment

They are constantly thinking about: how to maintain their image, how to get attention, how to destroy someone, future plans and whatever their latest hobby or obsession is. They also are obsessed with the idea that everyone is out to get them. This, of course will make them paranoid and fearful but as we know these are the conditions that negative, spiritual energies love.

These spiritual entities or energies keep the narcissist distracted and stops them from looking within. The entity plants thoughts and ideas to make the narcissist (their host) think that the danger is with out, that the danger is everyone and every thing else around them. By doing this the narcissist doesn’t have the time or interest in self reflection or introspection as they are convinced that all is well with them and the danger is who or what there is around them.

To an extent it is true, that we are surrounded by dangerous people and things but the entity makes the narcissist paranoid and delusional and makes them feel that it is a lot worst than it is. So, the narcissist ends up being constantly on the defensive not realisng that the threat is within them. That the evil that they are trying to prevent is their closest companion. Therefore, it is easier for the narcissist to point their finger at everyone but themselves. This is all by design, because many people who are possessed are not even aware of it. If you are not aware, then you will not do anything about it. This is what the entity aims for, to remain hidden, even from their host until they have sufficient control.

This is where the mindless overthinking comes into play. This is how the entity protects itself from being discovered.

The spirit or negative energy does a real number on the narcissist by making them feel worthless and insignificant or that they haven’t done or accomplished enough. So the narcissist is constantly trying to accomplish something which is of course a distraction but the narcissist doesn’t know that and that’s why no matter what they have or do they are never satisfied and it’s because the entity keeps making them feel incomplete.

Video looking at why the narcissist is never satisfied!

When you are possessed the entity has access to your thoughts and feelings which is what makes them so destructive. From there they can manipulate your emotions, your perceptions and beliefs and basically makes you do or behave how they want you to.

The overthinking prevents the narcissist from being mentally present, to observe within themselves and their mind what is truly going on. Their brushes with the entity in their dreams or night visions are usually pushed to the side as soon as they are awake and quickly replaced with the usual thoughts for the day.

In the end, the narcissist continues to go about mindlessly…preocupied with their false image, precocupied with fear, envy, hate, malice and pride. Their minds are so far gone in their thoughts that they spend a lot of time doing odd things like going over their daily to-do list for example, a hundred times even though it hasn’t change and they know exactly what they need to do. Or they will check their bank accounts on the hour every hour or their social media pages constantly even though they haven’t had any updates. They end up acting almost robotic, just going through their daily routines and it’s because they are not present.

The HOLD that the entity has on the mind of the narcissist makes it impossible for a narcissist to be happy, satisfied or at peace. The entity keeps them busy with thoughts of revenge, fear, envy and any other negative thoughts that it can. These negative thoughts makes the entity stronger and they keep the narcissist (the host) distracted from looking within.

The Suffering of Narcissists in Old Age

Narcissists are afraid of getting old. They don’t see it as a blessing but instead as a curse. Perhaps, because it impedes on their ability to wreak havoc and exercise the level of control that they love. But there is a lot more to it than we think. What is going on spiritually? What makes the narcissist so afraid of old age?

As the narcissist ages, their strength and vitality wanes and they also become more irrational and sloppy with their lies and manipulations. Also, many people who have endured with the narcissist for years would have abandoned them due to their toxicity. Narcissists become more hardened and difficult with age, especially the female narcissist. So, it should be no surprise that they end up old and alone.

When a narcissist is young they have their youth, looks and health on their side which aids them to accomplish their wicked ways but as they age they have to find something else to rely on. So as they age, the narcissist becomes very reliant on their accomplishments, achievements, or their seniority and would act as a master in their field or the head of the family and will try to remain relevant for as long as possible.

The narcissist is afraid of not being needed. They are afraid of being abandoned. The narcissist needs people to prop their egos and help them feel better about themselves. Old age for the narcissist brings further insecurities and an overall lack of control that the narcissist dreads but this is only the beginning. What the narcissist doesn’t know is that that dark entity they’ve been feeding for their whole lives has even more sinister things ahead.

(What I am about to reveal happens not only to the aged narcissist, but also when a narcissist is fatally ill and most of all when they are trying to expel the entity)

Spiritual forces at work
A woman struggling with dark spiritual forces.

For those narcissists who are unfortunate enough to make it to old age, this is where the suffering really begins. It’s a suffering on a whole other level, a suffering that they don’t expect. When narcissists are in their full strength they are a valuable host to demonic entities but the demons hate old age even more and are they themselves ready to find a fresh new host, but not until they’ve tormented their host to the grave. Even though the demonic entity has ruined the host on many levels; their relationships, their mind and have made their soul black. There work is not complete until the host is dead.

The entity turns on the host like never before; because the truth is these entities only wanted destruction and the death of the host is what they want more than ever once they are done with them. The narcissist will come face to face with the entity that has been controlling them their whole lives. The entity will taunt and mock the host. The thoughts of worthlessness that they struggled with will no longer be just thoughts but voices all around. They will be more constant and pervasive. The narcissist is forever paranoid but now they may also start seeing goulish faces all around. The spiritual attacks will no longer be limited to dreams or nightvisions. The aged narcissist will be living in a nightmare and will be constantly on edge and that is why some old narcissists are always enraged and lash out easily.

The torment and stress of the spiritual attacks can make the narcissist very ill or insane or both. But, what is certain is that their end, is one of suffering, one of torment and deepest regret. The narcissist will struggle alone because their age old pride will not allow them to confess their torment, for fear of being labeled insane. The narcissist is their own worst enemy and their lives are doomed to end in misery. The successes of their youth or any wealth they may have attained will not give solace at this time.

Why Narcissists Hurt People

This is a topic that has to be addressed on both levels, meaning the spiritual and the physical. There is a lot more at work behind narcissism and the narcissist. Let’s look at both sides to fully understand why narcissists hurt people.

It’s expected that narcissists will hurt, abuse, terrorise, manipulate, lie, gaslight and whatever other evil they can, to the people around them. It’s important for the narcissist to do this, as this is how the entity within them is fed and revitalised. The narcissist is just a pawn, a tool that the entity uses to accomplish this.

The dark, spiritual entity that resides in the narcissist needs to feed but it doesn’t eat what we eat, it needs our negative emotions. In order to get us to react negatively, so it can feed, it gets the narcissist to evoke a reaction. It can be an arguement, the silent treatment, a look, a dismissive word etc. There are so many ways that the narcissist can upset or disturb us. This is why it’s important that we learn to respond and not react to the narcissist. The danger is that they will try even more to provoke you to react that’s why it’s best to avoid these people by limiting contact or going no contact all together.

The narcissist is always hurting even though they try to hide it. They are never satisfied with what they have or what they’ve accomplished. Nothing satisfies or have an endearing impact to keep the narcissist happy. The entity keeps them feaful, paranoid and unfulfilled because that’s how the entity maintains its control. As a result, narcissists are filled with hurt, anger, disgust, fear, envy, jealousy and any other negative emotion you can think of. This is what helps the entity to thrive.

When the narcissist hurts you, they cannot relate or even comprehend your pain. Empathy is non-existent, it has to be for the entity to remain. Some narcissists can feign empathy really well but the truth is; while the entity is in control there can be no real empathy. As a result the narcissist will keep hurting and the entity will keep feeding because your pain is its medicine.

What is not known by many is that sometimes the narcissist is taken over completely and they do and say things that they themselves have no recollection of. When this happens their eyes or facial structure may change as well and it’s a very scary thing to witness. But it’s also very dangerous when the possession is that intense and unless the narcissist was video taped they will not believe and will think you are lying. But, for a narcissist to see something like this would be life changing because therein, will be the proof that they are in need of a serious intervention and that something is terribly wrong.

So, why does the narcissist hurt people? That is what they have been programmed to do. That is what keeps their demons happy.

But how does the narcissist see it? Many narcissists don’t even know or want to acknowledge that they are possessed by a demonic entity. They think their thoughts are their own and their actions are all their own and that they have full control. So, their sick desires of wanting and seeing other people broken and suffering is a desire that is not their own but they think that is. It becomes their own and they see the suffering of others as a win for them. So your pain, your hurt, your disappointments, your misery is what the narcissist wants more than anything else. Have you heard the saying “Misery loves company!”? Well, that’s exactly what is going on here. The entity keeps the narcissist in misery and the narcissist feels better to see others in misery because then, they know they are not alone.

To conclude, we see that the entity is what drives the narcissist to hurt others as it feeds off of negative emotions. The entity feeds off the narcissist and it feeds off the people the narcissist hurts. To the narcissist, (who in many cases is oblivious to the spiritual aspect) life is just a game that they have to win. Them hurting others is just a stepping stone to their goal, of conquering or controlling everyone around them. Also, because of their lack of empathy they will not be able to understand or care about the damage they are causing. All they know is that they hurt so you should hurt too.