This is a topic that has to be addressed on both levels, meaning the spiritual and the physical. There is a lot more at work behind narcissism and the narcissist. Let’s look at both sides to fully understand why narcissists hurt people.
It’s expected that narcissists will hurt, abuse, terrorise, manipulate, lie, gaslight and whatever other evil they can, to the people around them. It’s important for the narcissist to do this, as this is how the entity within them is fed and revitalised. The narcissist is just a pawn, a tool that the entity uses to accomplish this.
The dark, spiritual entity that resides in the narcissist needs to feed but it doesn’t eat what we eat, it needs our negative emotions. In order to get us to react negatively, so it can feed, it gets the narcissist to evoke a reaction. It can be an arguement, the silent treatment, a look, a dismissive word etc. There are so many ways that the narcissist can upset or disturb us. This is why it’s important that we learn to respond and not react to the narcissist. The danger is that they will try even more to provoke you to react that’s why it’s best to avoid these people by limiting contact or going no contact all together.
The narcissist is always hurting even though they try to hide it. They are never satisfied with what they have or what they’ve accomplished. Nothing satisfies or have an endearing impact to keep the narcissist happy. The entity keeps them feaful, paranoid and unfulfilled because that’s how the entity maintains its control. As a result, narcissists are filled with hurt, anger, disgust, fear, envy, jealousy and any other negative emotion you can think of. This is what helps the entity to thrive.
When the narcissist hurts you, they cannot relate or even comprehend your pain. Empathy is non-existent, it has to be for the entity to remain. Some narcissists can feign empathy really well but the truth is; while the entity is in control there can be no real empathy. As a result the narcissist will keep hurting and the entity will keep feeding because your pain is its medicine.
What is not known by many is that sometimes the narcissist is taken over completely and they do and say things that they themselves have no recollection of. When this happens their eyes or facial structure may change as well and it’s a very scary thing to witness. But it’s also very dangerous when the possession is that intense and unless the narcissist was video taped they will not believe and will think you are lying. But, for a narcissist to see something like this would be life changing because therein, will be the proof that they are in need of a serious intervention and that something is terribly wrong.
So, why does the narcissist hurt people? That is what they have been programmed to do. That is what keeps their demons happy.
But how does the narcissist see it? Many narcissists don’t even know or want to acknowledge that they are possessed by a demonic entity. They think their thoughts are their own and their actions are all their own and that they have full control. So, their sick desires of wanting and seeing other people broken and suffering is a desire that is not their own but they think that is. It becomes their own and they see the suffering of others as a win for them. So your pain, your hurt, your disappointments, your misery is what the narcissist wants more than anything else. Have you heard the saying “Misery loves company!”? Well, that’s exactly what is going on here. The entity keeps the narcissist in misery and the narcissist feels better to see others in misery because then, they know they are not alone.
To conclude, we see that the entity is what drives the narcissist to hurt others as it feeds off of negative emotions. The entity feeds off the narcissist and it feeds off the people the narcissist hurts. To the narcissist, (who in many cases is oblivious to the spiritual aspect) life is just a game that they have to win. Them hurting others is just a stepping stone to their goal, of conquering or controlling everyone around them. Also, because of their lack of empathy they will not be able to understand or care about the damage they are causing. All they know is that they hurt so you should hurt too.